Burial attire can be an important part of funeral planning, providing loved ones with a final opportunity to honour their deceased friends and family members. The choice of clothing can reflect the deceased’s personality, final wishes and personal style. In addition, burial clothes can also serve to set a dignified tone for the resting place ceremony.
For many people, choosing outfits for their loved ones to wear in death is a deeply emotional experience. They may be unsure where to start or what to look for when selecting their loved one’s outfit. Fortunately, there are several resources available that can help make the decision-making process easier.
One option is to look through the deceased’s closet for items they would have liked to be buried in. This can be especially helpful if they left instructions on what they wanted to be dressed in or had a specific favourite outfit that holds meaning. In addition, a funeral director can often offer valuable guidance on suitable options, taking into consideration any cultural or religious traditions that may be relevant.
The clothing used for burial can vary widely, depending on the individual’s preferences and funeral home or cemetery rules. For example, some cemeteries and green burial sites require that all clothing be biodegradable or made from natural materials. This is generally a requirement for any clothing worn by the deceased, but can include other personal items such as a favourite book or piece of jewellery.
While a certain level of formality is common, the specific style can vary based on the individual’s personal preferences or any cultural or religious requirements. For example, some cultures may prefer a particular type of dress or skirt for women, and some men may prefer a suit or dress shirt with a tie.
In addition, families often find comfort in dressing their deceased loved ones in garments they know they will have been comfortable wearing. This can include a favorite outfit that has significant sentimental value, or simply something they have enjoyed throughout their life. Involving loved ones in the choice of clothing can also be a soothing and comforting process, allowing them to spend time together while making the decision.
For infant deaths, such as those of micro preemies, finding burial clothes can be particularly difficult. However, a Utah seamstress is helping ease the burden for some parents. Ciara Hulet of member station KUER reports.