The choice of attire for a loved one’s funeral can be a profoundly personal and meaningful task. With the help of professional staff and a few thoughtful considerations, it is possible to find clothing that honors a person’s personality, beliefs and final journey.
The types of clothes worn at a funeral can vary, depending on the culture and beliefs of a specific religion or community. It’s important to consult with religious leaders, clergy or knowledgeable individuals for guidance and compliance with religious customs when choosing attire for a deceased individual.
Burial clothing is usually a more formal style of dressing than is typically worn for other occasions, but this can be adjusted to align with a deceased person’s personal preferences and beliefs. For men, traditional options may include suits and dress shirts with ties, while women’s options can range from dresses and skirts to blouses or pantsuits.
Some families choose to dress their loved ones in favorite outfits, such as a favourite football shirt or comfy pyjamas, that they wore in life. This can provide comfort and a sense of continuity in death, and is often a way to celebrate a person’s life and character. It is important to note, however, that the items chosen must be suitable for viewing and transport in a coffin, and that any jewellery will need to be removed prior to cremation.
Many cemeteries have clear guidelines about what clothing can be buried or cremated. For example, most green funerals require that clothing be a dark colour to reduce the chance of discoloration during the aging process and to ensure a dignified appearance for family members visiting the grave. It’s also important to remember that clothing will need to fit over any casket lining, so it should be loose enough to allow for swelling.
There are several places that can be sourced to purchase burial gowns, including retail and online stores. The goal is to select an outfit that is comfortable, stylish and reflects the deceased’s personality and beliefs. In addition to selecting an outfit, it’s also helpful to keep in mind any special mementos that might be brought to the service and to consider how this will impact the overall look of the outfit.
In Utah, a seamstress is easing the burden on grieving families by sewing specialized angel gowns for tiny infants who die. KUER’s Ciara Hulet reports.