When a loved one passes away, there is a lot of logistical planning that needs to take place. This includes deciding what clothing they will be dressed in for their funeral. It can be comforting for families to dress their deceased relative in a favourite garment – such as a shirt, sweater or night gown – that they enjoyed wearing in life. This can be a good way of re-enacting a special moment from their lives together and also helps those attending the service to feel closer to them in a more personal way.
Traditionally, many people choose to wear black clothing for a funeral as this represents mourning and respect. However, this is not always the case and there are a number of different outfits that people can choose to wear.
If your loved one wanted to be buried rather than cremated, your local funeral home will be able to provide you with a burial gown that is similar in style to pyjamas or smart nightwear. If your loved one was a fan of bright colours or patterns, then this can also be reflected in the clothes they are dressed in. It is usually possible to include some personal effects, such as a favourite book or wedding ring, in the casket as well. However, it is important to remember that if your loved one is being cremated, items with rubber, plastic or metal cannot be included as this can damage the crematorium chamber.
The lining fabric of the burial shroud is made from linen which is a natural, biodegradable and sustainable material. The buttons are made from nacre, a natural mineral that is also environmentally friendly. This means that the entire shroud is both environmentally and spiritually appropriate for a green funeral or woodland burial.
It is also possible to have a shroud made specifically for your child or baby. This can be a wonderful way for parents to hold their beloved little one close to them once again and allows other family members and friends to join in the ceremony and celebrate their life.
KUER’s Ciara Hulet reports on a Utah seamstress who is making it her mission to ease the grief of infant death for families. Using donated wedding dresses, she sews burial clothes for tiny babes who don’t make it past the NICU. She’s part of a larger movement called angel gown projects that are popping up around the country and world.
Ultimately, you can choose to dress your loved one in whatever clothing they would have worn in their lifetime, provided that it is clean and in good condition. However, the choice of clothing can be influenced by your loved ones wishes and preferences as well as the type of funeral service you plan to have. If you are unsure about the clothing that is most appropriate for your deceased loved one, then it is worth discussing these with them before their passing and listening to any requests they may have.