In many cultures, people are laid to rest in the clothes they were wearing at the time of their death. Dressing a loved one in their own clothing is thought to give them a more dignified appearance and make the funeral service more personal for those who were close to them. Although there are no formal rules, it is common for family members to choose a favorite dress or suit to wear for the viewing and funeral ceremony. If the deceased left behind instructions on their funeral plans, this may provide clues as to what type of outfit they preferred to be dressed in for their final journey.
It can be a difficult task to select a garment that will honor a loved one. Some families choose to purchase a special wedding gown or suit they know the deceased enjoyed wearing. This can be a wonderful way for friends and family to remember the person they lost with a sense of dignity and love.
The selection of burial attire has evolved over the years. In the past, it was customary for a man to be put to rest in a dark-colored suit and tie or a woman to be dressed in a satin gown. Now, people are more likely to be laid to rest in a light-colored shroud or a natural linen casket cover that will decompose alongside the body, allowing for a more peaceful passing and natural return to the earth.
Whether choosing an old dress or suit, or a simple linen garment, choosing the right clothing for a loved one’s final voyage can be a moving and personal experience. If there are no specific guidelines on what to wear, it is important that the apparel selected be clean and tasteful. It is also recommended that any jewelry worn by the departed be removed prior to the funeral as it can cause damage to the casket.
There are several options for clothing a loved one who has passed on, including burial gowns that can be purchased from funeral directors or online. The purpose of these garments is to aide in the dressing process, protect the body from abrasion and keep it comfortable during transport and the natural course of rigor mortis. The gowns are designed to resemble smart night gowns or pyjamas and can be tailored for both men and women. They are also available in sizes for infants.
If the deceased is going to be cremated, the funeral director will often remove the clothes and any sentimental items that are not a part of the person’s ashes. These items can be kept by the family or donated to charity.
A Northside woman, Marie Murphy, has started a non-profit called Little Angel Gowns to turn donated bridal dresses into burial clothing for babies who were stillborn or miscarried. She herself suffered a miscarriage 26 years ago, and she understands the loss that so many families go through each year. She and a group of volunteers meet each week to turn wedding dresses into burial garments.