The way in which a person is dressed for their funeral can say a great deal about the individual and the respect in which they were held. While the selection of burial clothes can be a sensitive and sometimes difficult task, it is also an opportunity to honor a deceased loved one by choosing clothing that reflects their unique personality and style. While the choice may be personal and influenced by cultural norms and family preferences, it is important to remember that religious beliefs and customs can also have an impact on attire for a funeral service.
For this reason, it is important to consult with clergy or other individuals within the faith tradition to ensure that the chosen clothing meets any specific guidelines and requirements for the funeral service. In addition, incorporating traditional cultural attire can be an excellent way to pay tribute to the deceased and show respect for their heritage. Generally speaking, men’s burial attire tends to lean toward more formal clothing, such as suits or dress shirts and ties, while women may choose more informal outfits such as skirts or dresses.
As a general rule, it is important to avoid clothing that is overly casual or flashy as these items may draw attention away from the solemnity of the occasion and the deceased. It is also recommended to avoid wearing jewelry or other valuables as they will likely be discarded after the funeral services are complete. In addition, if the person is to be cremated following their funeral, it is important to note that any jewelry or sentimental items must be removed as they cannot be returned to their original state for the process.
Often times, loved ones will choose to dress their dead relatives in clothing that was worn during life, as this is an important part of the grieving process. However, this is not always possible as some garments are no longer fitting due to weight loss or illness and others are inappropriate for burial because they can cause stiffness from rigor mortis.
Burial gowns are a solution to this issue and are designed to be easily put on and provide the body with an elegant covering that conceals any blemishes on the skin. Typically, these garments have high necklines and long sleeves to ensure that any marks on the body are not seen. They are also typically made of light, soft materials that will drape over the body with ease.
For those that are unable to make their own burial gowns, there are non-profit agencies and retailers that specialize in the creation of these dresses. Beverly Duckett, for example, creates tiny burial gowns and wraps for infants who die before birth in her bright second-floor sewing room. Her work offers a measure of comfort for parents who have suffered the heartbreaking loss of their infant, while providing families with something beautiful to remember their little angel by.